Is it forgivable to envy someone, just because he do something better than you, and it attracts people you care the most?
Is it wise to keep all those in silence?
Is it?
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hmmm.. gw juga gtau tuh im..
tapii... klo gw selalu jealous ama aa'.. kyaknya gw ga bakal bisa hidup tenang deh.. u know lah.. brapa banyak wanita cantik yang ada di sekitarnya?.. gw ga sanggup ngebayangin deh.. tapi yang jelas.. gw percaya.. dia ga akan mengkhianati cinta kami *pitpiuww.. yakin bener gituh? YUP.. YAKIN!*..
It's one of human traits. So, it's natural to feel a tingle of envy, even the slightest bit.
It becomes a sin when it makes us blinded, when it encourages us to do well, bad things. It's best not to keep it to yourself, it's most likely to be a time bomb. You must be able to let it go or turn it into positive energy to make you motivated to do better than him.
Besides, what's the use of envy? It's tiring being envy to others, it's not like it's going to disappear or be transferred to us and it's not like we don't have anything to be proud of ourselves, right?
You are you. We ain't perfect. Us with our weakness and strength. We can try, but nothing more. Just do what we can do best in everything.
Just sharing my opinion ^___^ ~~
-- Life is about choices. Every choice has its consequences. It's our choice that define us.
5 comments:
hmmm.. gw juga gtau tuh im..
tapii... klo gw selalu jealous ama aa'.. kyaknya gw ga bakal bisa hidup tenang deh.. u know lah.. brapa banyak wanita cantik yang ada di sekitarnya?.. gw ga sanggup ngebayangin deh.. tapi yang jelas.. gw percaya.. dia ga akan mengkhianati cinta kami *pitpiuww.. yakin bener gituh? YUP.. YAKIN!*..
nitip ucapan bwat aa'ku "honey.. i miss you.."
wadaw... pelik pelik... sabar sabar aja bro...
certainly jealousy is not a sin. God created it for a reason.
everyone has the right to be jealous within certain limits.
silence is not going to solve a problem. it will make everything worst. but don't be too paranoid. keep it low.
i had been through this years ago.. so i know how hurtful it is.
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I'd say it depends.
It's one of human traits. So, it's natural to feel a tingle of envy, even the slightest bit.
It becomes a sin when it makes us blinded, when it encourages us to do well, bad things. It's best not to keep it to yourself, it's most likely to be a time bomb. You must be able to let it go or turn it into positive energy to make you motivated to do better than him.
Besides, what's the use of envy? It's tiring being envy to others, it's not like it's going to disappear or be transferred to us and it's not like we don't have anything to be proud of ourselves, right?
You are you. We ain't perfect. Us with our weakness and strength. We can try, but nothing more. Just do what we can do best in everything.
Just sharing my opinion ^___^ ~~
--
Life is about choices. Every choice has its consequences. It's our choice that define us.
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well, there are things that u better keep them for yourself.....
it is not wise to be open all the time while simultaneously you hurt others around you even unconsciously....
it's a process or maturing, bro
life is nothing but a cycle
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